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MVP: Good ideas can become great ideas when diverse people come together to discuss them. I do not enjoy social media and I feel like I’m wasting my time when I’m on it, even for my business. However, every so often something good happens on LinkedIn and someone posts something truly valuable. Oddly enough, the value doesn’t lie in the content of the post, it lies in the content of the replies. A good post will stimulate discussion, in which diverse people offer different interpretations, modifications, or questions. The result is something new, and usually better than the original. I have great ideas, but you and I together, we can have greater ideas! Much greater. Today’s intention: Think about opportunities for sharing a concept that would allow others to add to it. Cheers! Frederick
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Colleagues,
MVP: Priority management requires resisting distractions. I can get very distracted by shiny objects. If I was a dog in the park, that wouldn’t be a problem. But I am a business owner. Shiny objects have been detrimental to my business, and resisting them is a constant challenge. I have three big priorities right now:
Everything else is a distraction. I wish I had a magic formula for staying focused, but the only strategy I can offer is to repeat “stay focused” 25 times a day. Today’s intention: How do you stay focused on your priorities? Cheers! Frederick Colleagues,
MVP: Simple circle activities can promote many voices. In 2024 I will facilitate 16 workshops for governmental and non-profit leaders in Western North Carolina (WNC). At the end of each of those workshops, we will form a circle and share one of the following:
I set the stage, but the participants create the circle, physically and metaphorically. The cognition and emotion are different each time as participants create the circle’s meaning anew each time. This is so much more powerful than “thanks, see you next week.” The circle creates the opportunity for co-creation. Want to know more about circles? Lyndsay Lyons and I dove into co-creation on last week’s episode of The Assistant Principal Podcast. It is a wonderful episode in which two laughing friends discuss serious stuff. Today’s intention: Think about how you can use your leadership to provide opportunities for others’ voices to be heard. Cheers! Frederick Colleagues,
MVP: Instead of selling your vision, try helping others build one that will endure even after you are gone. One of my secret peeves is hearing people exhort leaders to “sell the vision!” I hate that saying because it implies you are selling your vision. What’s wrong with your vision? Three things:
What’s the alternative? Build a collective vision that will endure after you have gone, one that expresses the aspirations of the stakeholders. And if you aren’t convinced, consider this: Most people who have already been through multiple leaders will not purchase your vision, or – worse – will pay with counterfeit money. 🤑 Today’s intention: Just sit with this one today. Cheers! Frederick Colleagues,
My purpose in this week’s emails has been two-fold:
Lesson 5 from Thanksgiving with a fractured family: We can accept that we do not control how others see their world. Or we can keep fighting. When I talk politics with people who don’t mirror my beliefs, I only do so in the hopes of growing my own understanding of where our common ground is. I will never be able to “convince” someone to see things my way. At the very best, I can help them respect me and understand why I have the views I have. The first step to gaining that respect is to give it by seeking understanding. Caution: do not expect others to want to understand your views and do not seek to understand in hopes that it will be reciprocated. Seek to understand because that understanding will make you a better person. I don’t remember having done a week of emails quite like this one’s. I don’t know if these have been helpful or not. If you feel strongly either way, I would appreciate hearing from you. I can serve you better when I know what has worked. Like way too many families in the United States, mine has been fractured by politics and disagreement. At the same time, we have been reminded by loss and grief how important family is. As members of my extended family sought to find common ground or at least to move forward in a constructive way, I was reminded of five important lessons this week. I hope these lessons find meaning in both your personal and professional lives. Today’s intention: Reflect on the week and think about how you can use what you’ve read as the holiday season continues to bring us into proximity of those we love but who we may not agree with. Cheers! Frederick |
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